Welcome to our blog page. Here you will find a range of short articles about sex and pornography addiction and its impact on partners – and also on society. We aim to write at least two blogs a month. Some will be extracts from books written by Paula Hall, some are about news items that have recently been in the press. We also like to write about some of the controversies in sex and porn addiction as we’re aware of what a huge impact they can have on people struggling with this problem and also those of us that work in the field. Please do have a browse and if you find something that interests you, please do feel free to share with friends on social media as, or if, appropriate.
Porn & Sex Addiction Therapy Blog
2022
How shame fuels addiction
Continuing our blog series on faulty core beliefs, today we’re looking at shame. Often underneath the belief script that ‘I can’t change’ is shame. And shame is the most toxic of all the faulty core beliefs. Indeed, shame is perhaps...
2022
I can’t change
Challenging faulty core beliefs that fuel sex addiction and porn addiction Over the last few weeks we’ve been looking at how faulty core beliefs can sabotage recovery. We’ve looked at the faulty core beliefs behind ‘I don’t need to change’...
2022
Beating porn addiction
How faulty core beliefs can sabotage recovery Last time we explored the faulty core belief of ‘I don’t need to change’ and today we’re looking at ‘I don’t want to change’. Beneath this thinking there is often a terrifying fear...
2022
Sex Addiction – a personal recovery story
We’re interrupting our current blog series to share this personal story of addiction recovery. Huge thanks to our anonymous contributor for his courage and generosity in sharing this powerful story with us all. We hope that it inspires others to...
2022
Am I an addict?
Denial and faulty core beliefs Last month we began a new blog series looking at how faulty core beliefs can sabotage recovery and, in some instances, can stop you getting into recovery all together. Today we’re going to look at...
2022
How faulty core beliefs damage recovery from sex addiction
In our last blog we were looking at how faulty core beliefs are often at the root of sex addiction and porn addiction. We looked at how those core beliefs often result in assumptions and then in automatic negative thoughts...