Welcome to our blog page. Here you will find a range of short articles about sex and pornography addiction and its impact on partners – and also on society. We aim to write at least two blogs a month. Some will be extracts from books written by Paula Hall, some are about news items that have recently been in the press. We also like to write about some of the controversies in sex and porn addiction as we’re aware of what a huge impact they can have on people struggling with this problem and also those of us that work in the field. Please do have a browse and if you find something that interests you, please do feel free to share with friends on social media as, or if, appropriate.
Porn & Sex Addiction Therapy Blog
November 2016
The Rising Problem of Porn for Young Adults
With an estimated 1.7 billion active users on Facebook alone, 90% of 16-24 year olds owning a smartphone, and unprecedented accessibility to the world wide web, it is little wonder many are so easily turning to porn to ‘blow off...
September 2016
Rebuilding Trust
The discovery of sex or porn addition wrecks trust in couple relationships. Partner’s often describe the shock of discovering the person they were living with was not who they thought they were and the relationship they had shared together was very different...
July 2016
Addiction is selfish… But so is recovery
Someone who compulsively engages in sexual behaviours knowing that doing so is harming their loved ones are often called selfish. The addictive behaviour often begins to take priority over everything else. Other responsibilities take second place and as the addiction...
May 2016
Understanding Relapse
One of the most common misunderstandings about relapse is that it happens suddenly. One minute you’re doing well in your recovery and the next minute you’ve relapsed. Bang! But in reality, this just isn’t true. Relapse is a process, not...
May 2016
We need to talk about sex addiction
Those of you who know me will know that I’m passionate about reducing the stigma and shame that surrounds sex addiction. To do that, we need to start talking about it. Not with judgment and cynicism, but with compassion. There...
March 2016
Our Responsibility To Protect Children From Porn
A new consultation document has recently been released by the UK Government entitled ‘Child Safety Online - Age Verification for Pornography. The paper outlines the fact that whilst we as a society have measures in place to protect children from...