Broken Posted September 25, 2016 Report Share Posted September 25, 2016 I am brand new to the realisation that my husband is a porn addict. I didn't even realise this was an addiction. I first found out he used porn about 13 years ago. He said it would stop. Over the years there have been at least two more confrontations, I guess haven't taken it seriously enough to look into it properly until last night. I confronted my husband, stated that this has been going on for at least the 14 years we've been together & he didn't even deny it, didn't say he was sorry, just that he didn't know what to say.Rightly or wrongly I have told him he needs to go and see someone, this is his very last chance or our marriage is over.We have two children (13&10), I have banned him from our bed, preferably I would like him to move out! Which means our children and the hole community will know we're having problems...not something I really want to happen! I suffer from depression/anxiety, my husband has never really understood/supported me and I feel we have no emotional connection. Where do I go from here??? I need help!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hanginginthere Posted October 2, 2016 Report Share Posted October 2, 2016 I am in a similar situation to you. Get this book, it helps & contact Paula Hall for a consultation & your husband needs to get help too! If he is motivated to stop? Mine is. Book: sex addiction, the partners perspective by Paula Hall. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PJ Posted October 28, 2016 Report Share Posted October 28, 2016 Broken - that sounds tough. How are things going now? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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